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 “I NEED SPACE” 

So my boyfriend and I broke up after New Year’s 2010 and I was completely devastated.  I didn’t see it coming.  Obviously in retrospect the lack of Christmas present (i.e. I got him one, but he didn’t get me one), and the sudden “need for space” should have raised a red flag or two for me, but of course I was blinded by love and ignored these little, yet alarming hints.

Naturally when we’re rejected, as females, we react with our emotions and cling to our now ex-boyfriends by calling them incessantly, sending weepy text messages, and basically stalking their Facebook page, bursting into tears when we see that he does in fact, have attractive female friends that write on his wall.  Facebook is the devil, but I’ll get into that in my next article.

I know, it’s horrible to admit, but most of us have done unspeakable things when we’ve been dumped by the guy that we’re smitten with.  It’s an awful feeling, and we start analyzing every little detail of the relationship until there’s nothing left but unanswered questions.  I even did the worst thing I could possibly do and I offered him my “friendship”.  Gross.  Like who REALLY wants to be friends after being dumped?  Nobody.  It’s a pathetic attempt to keep in contact with this person in hopes that they’ll “realize” what they’ve lost and come running back to you.  It doesn’t work. 

When my friend Kyle, asked me if I’d moved on yet, I wrote him this:

Check out this video! It's a CLEAN version of THE PLOT by DEEPCAVE RECORDS recording artists FILTHY ANIMALS "The Plot" music video featuring BIG BEAR (NWO), P-NUTTY (Dead Indians/NWO) and BROMS, with guest appearances by JON C and CHARLIE FETTAH (HEATBAG RECORDS), KENNY BANG EM and KENNY G (NWO/DEAD INDIANS), TRAVIS T (ex-XPLICIT), THE 204 RIDERZ, and Winnipeg Jets (NHL) Mascot Legend "DANCING GABE" LANGLOI. Enjoy!